PM Thread #5 - Hope new plan works

[mdoodles]

it is much easier for them to blame us than for them to admit they messed up. if they admit they messed up, they may actually feel guilty - and they dont want to feel that.

also, the more they blame us, the easier it is for them to move on.

i know for me,when i was angry at h, it made it alot easier to try to move on, than when i was upset and all sappy about our marriage.

one year ago this weekend, we were on the worst terms ever in our history. i never would have thought things would be ok.

one year later, h is home. is it perfect or even great? no.

but he is home.

so dont give up, if u arent ready to.