Update: As soon as my wife left I deliberately switched my cell phone off. The landline phone rang which I ignored, which after ringing '1471' here in the UK you can find out who rang your number. It turned out to be my wife who rang, as soon as I switched my cell phone back on I had two texts and a voicemail (I then switched it off again). She started off with "you obviously couldn't wait to get out of the door"... the voicemail was about having the children over half term which I said I would discuss with her over the next day or so when she came to pick the children up, so I don't know why she rang now. She has made anassumption on where I am going on Wednesday which is so far off base it is ridiculous - she thinks I am going to my mothers for a birthday bash which she is not even having. She said I don't care just don't lie to me. Considering I did not tell her where I was going is obviously bothering her.
I also forgot to give her some money was the other reason she texted. I will not contact her until tomorrow.
Those 10 words though "You obviously couldn't wait to get out of the door" has given me a small victory in a current sea of failure (apart from the children). It means nothing in the big picture but it has given me a little lift which I so need at the moment. She does not know where I am now and what my movements are for the next couple of weeks and that has 'bothered' her.
Last edited by markhaving probs; 05/17/0905:53 PM.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
