J, When you say give up, what from? What are you trying to accomplish with the M? Do you mean give up the M, or give up an approach you've been trying?
Moving on can mean different things. Moving on can mean putting less energy into the M. Do you mean a D, or again not putting as much energy into the M, or accepting that a desire of yours isn't realistic at this time?
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."