Been keeping busy. Trying to do yard work and helping my sister move to her new place.
My H started texting me the other night and he was asking me about forwarded messages. So I answered even though I knew I should not have but I figured if it did not concern our R then it would be okay. Well that ended up back firing on me. He started saying stuff like I could have everything and that I just needed to take what I wanted, take my girls, and make a better life without him. I asked him what was wrong and he just kept telling me that he had messed everything up and that he knew that he was going to be losing everything that he loved so much because I did not want to be with him any more. I answered that he should have thought about that before he cheated and did the things that he did. He answered back that 'We have issuses'. I answered back 'U have issues'. He did nto reply and I have not heard form him since. He also had said something that he had joined the military again and that he had signed the papers to do so right before he left to go to Maine after I had served him his papers for divorce. I do not believe this one bit but oh well if he does.
I have been referring back to the message that I had gotten about the vampire. He is doing just that. I had also copied that message and sent it to my sister. Even though her and her BF are splitting up anyway, she could really see her BF in that message. She is moving to a new place and does not want him to move in with her like they had planned so now he is getting sick, then when she does not seem to care, he gets depressed, then he tells her that she can't do it without him, etc, etc. Maybe alot of people follow the vampire thing to a tee. LOL
Well today I am doing okay when it comes to my H but I am having a really crappy day anyway. My youngest daughter found our cat having problems with something so we rushed him to the vet and we were only there for 10-15 minutes trying to same the cat when he died anyway. We had to bring him home and bury him. He was my sleeping buddy and I will miss him terribly.
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09