Setting Boundaries for MLC Alien H

[In Limbo]

Sandi,

One other thought. I agree completely with you that what he's doing is unacceptable. So much of this MLCer stuff it unacceptable. Every day it makes me wonder why I'm standing. But isn't that the problem with MLCers? What I'm trying to weed through is how much of this is due to MLC and how much of it is his true character that will still be there post-MLC. Is this person really someone that I should fight to be with? What have I seen in his character pre-MLC and maybe ignored b/c I loved him so? So the question is how much can I take now, but also what have I taken in the past that I shouldn't have and would I really want that for the future? It's odd b/c three years ago I was almost WAW and now he's MLC. So, maybe there have been deep problems all along that indicate we're wrong for each other? Or maybe we're meant to be together, but we've just not yet learned to deal with the problems?