Ammo, Her moving out isn't the last word, believe me. There is always hope, especially when you have a shared history and D together. The road is long and hard, but there is always hope. Just focus on the things that are important and that you CAN control. Be the better man for yourself and your D.
I know it hurts like crazy every little thing the WAS does when they build their new life without you. Each thing seems like it is a irrevocable step away: signing the lease for the apartment, buying the furniture, picking out the curtains, etc. I can tell you that it isn't the end, though. My W did all those things too. We have been separated for 6 months and she was as adamant that we were through as any W I've read about here. Guess what? She is coming back next month. She is selling all that stuff she bought, she's canceling her lease, and she is coming back to work on our M. She has discovered that the grass isn't greener "over there". Believe me, if my W can have that epiphany, then ANY W can, even yours.
Be strong and hang in there.
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09
