O.K, so your wife may need to get into the apartment if there is an emergency with one of your daughters? Is this why she has a key? Do you still have a key to your old house? If you couldn't even use the bathroom you wanted to there why can she have access to your house? This is not about tit for tat it is about having a backbone. What will you do if she goes in and rearranges all your furniture (not the long table which she won't let you have, of course)?
