Your friends are wrong, as evidenced by many posts/threads on this board. She hasn't pulled the trigger yet because she hasn't made up her mind to do it. Saying it and doing it are two diffrent things. It's easy to say it, but harder to do it.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
