I think you're doing a great job of setting goals and keeping busy. Yes, it's super hard when there is no communication from H. I am in the same boat. It sounds like he's being a bit of a caveman. If you haven't read Men are from Mars (Gray) I'd encourage you to grab a copy. You can skip around and get a good sense for what may be going on in H's head, and more importantly, how as a female to best respond or avoid reaction.
Keep yourself busy, get those highlights, and feel good about yourself. Become the woman inside and out that H would be CRAZY to leave!
