I'm wondering..since I've been trying the route of remaining friends with H through this...at some point is that slowing the process? I think it will be easier in all respects to separate more, do my own thing more, once this comunication class is over and school is out(all the last week of May). There won't be a reason to see each other and interact unless H initiates.

I know its best to have no expectations..but I can't shake my negative expectations. I really think H won't initiate anything/won't try to maintain a friendship..


M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.