hi...i do not know if i have ever posted to you, but i have followed your posts from time to time.

first off, he knows very well it wasnt your fault. i have come to learn that they blame us because it is easier to put it off on someone else, it is easier to say it was our fault too etc.

u did nothing wrong, and i think u know that. when we hear someone tell us we did, it plays with our mind, it has happened to me.

i think u handled yourself well, we cannot stick to db every second, and sometimes u shouldnt, if u feel u need to defend yourself, u should.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09