Trusting, Still fighting over at tye pigsty? The cruise should be a very interesting one....I cannot see either one of them enjoying a cruise if they are constantly fighting...but then again, maybe this is how they communicate.
As for the credit cards, he's got a lot of bills coming due soon. It shall be interesting to see just how he plans to pay them off. He's still off in la-la-land.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.