You are in my thoughts too. Many people I know are both fighting for life, family and marriage. Recently I had the opportunity to share the DB/DR book with two different people, one has been working hard on their sitch, the other is trying to decide if they want to work their way out of a MLC. It's hard to hold my tongue when I am hearing the thought of bagging a M due to a MLC. I about want to come through the phone at them.
Had to check on you dear friend. Keep up the good fight, we'll check on you again soon. No applying some of those fireworks coming up in a week or two under your H. Not good form!