Incidentally Sandi, what did you think about the response posted by futureunknown? I liked it.
It sounded real good, Antlers. I guess I gave you a hard time about the Mother's Day thing when you had already beaten yourself over it. I was scanning the posts trying to catch up when I should have taken it more slowly and read it throughly. You can count on me to sound like the mindset of a WAW..... Like I said before, it takes all of us to try to understand things. It is hard to keep one's perspective about some things. BTW, just so you will know.....in my "scanning" the posts, I think I missed the part about her getting the kids later in the day on Mother's Day, so I did not have the full picture.....which was my fault. I do apologize for not reading more carefully.
I have not read futureunknown's stitch, but sounds like you could use the fresh advice.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Incidentally Sandi, what did you think about the response posted by futureunknown? I liked it.
It sounded real good, Antlers. I guess I gave you a hard time about the Mother's Day thing when you had already beaten yourself over it. I was scanning the posts trying to catch up when I should have taken it more slowly and read it throughly. You can count on me to sound like the mindset of a WAW..... Like I said before, it takes all of us to try to understand things. It is hard to keep one's perspective about some things. BTW, just so you will know.....in my "scanning" the posts, I think I missed the part about her getting the kids later in the day on Mother's Day, so I did not have the full picture.....which was my fault. I do apologize for not reading more carefully.
I have not read futureunknown's stitch, but sounds like you could use the fresh advice.
Take care, Sandi
Hi Sandi.
Yeah...it's good. I'm gonna use it later tonight when I respond to her E-mail. No sweat about the Mother's Day thing. I appreciate your perspective! I'm glad we all have each other here to help us understand things better.
This is a heck of a way to live.
I'm glad you're here.
Thanks,
antlers
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
Hate to see him go...I was hoping he could stay around longer. At least her texts today didn't contain all capital letters, and there was no cursing.
When she comes to pick up our kids and we are outside playing, she won't even look at me.
Is that what she did? (not look at you) or is that what you anticipate happening?
Get a new cat? Maybe...
Nah...anythime she comes to pick up our kids, if it's still light outside we are usually playing outside. She never looks at me...happens every time.
I know this sounds hokey but, can you even envision it going differently? I mean I know she's predictable and you don't want to have expectations but I'm a big believer in visualizing things going differently. I mean it is hard to get there if you can't even imagine it...
I have not read futureunknown's stitch, but sounds like you could use the fresh advice.
Sandi-
I'd very much appreciate your take on my situation, especially given what just happened. I'm really at a loss. I feel like there's something potentially brewing, but I don't want to overplay my hand. I know the WAW is a very delicate creature, especially with an A involoved. Anything you could offer would be very appreciated.
Like I said before, it takes all of us to try to understand things. It is hard to keep one's perspective about some things. BTW, just so you will know.....in my "scanning" the posts, I think I missed the part about her getting the kids later in the day on Mother's Day, so I did not have the full picture.....which was my fault. I do apologize for not reading more carefully.