You know Limbo, maybe I should not say this and it may be going too far, but since it is just you and I here talking......

I am going to be very blunt, okay? I think he has you right where he wants you! He is being unfaithful to you. He is going out and having fun without you. He comes home and there you are waiting for him and he knows he can work his magic on you and you cave. I think you need to get his attention! Stop being the meek little woman who stays at home "worrying" about what he is up to.

Maybe he needs to see you in a red sparkling dress with a split up to there. When he asks where you are going, then you tell him that it's not what he thinks. Be just as vague and return some of those answers he has been giving you.

Oh I am not suggesting that you go out looking for men. But I am saying that you are giving me a certain "picture" about you and I don't think that is working for ya. The man has it made! He is cake eating every day and nothing has changed and it is not going to until you get his attention.

Now I know we say to GAL for yourself and to change for yourself, etc. But if you want this man then you need to do something different. Do the same thing and expecting something different is insanity. That is what I was told! You think you are doing 180's but they are not giving a loud enough message. You don't seem to know what you want and I suppose that is why you have the name "in limbo" and I am not beating you up about that, but I am saying that you need to decide what it is you want and set those goals and go after it. Stop sitting on your tale and accepting what crumbs he throws at you. Those crumbs are dirty and you deserve better.

Just my thoughts.

Sandi

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!