I believe it is possible for anyone to change if they want to. However, here is an immature boy who needs to do years of growing up. You have already worded most of what I could say and I think you have to look at the big picture where "time" is concerned and if you want to wait around about ten more years for him to grow. I am not sure that he would catch up with you mature-wise and it has nothing to do with the age difference. My H was only 22 when we M and we both had a lot of growing up to do but he was not like you described in your H. As you know, people grow in differnt speeds, so who knows how long it would take him.
I realize you have to consider your children and I would do the same thing. I wish you all the best.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
