I sabotage myself too because I make lots of assumptions. It is so important to not jump to conclusions. Sadly you are not in his head and really can't know what he is thinking. You need to be confident and relaxed and borrow my mantra...be patient. He wants you too.

And Ali you know that much is true. Hugs,
kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory