SC,
All this sounds great. You are making some real personal growth here. Good for you. I figure that those of us who try actually do wind up better off.

"Apparently he had brought OW and had her waiting while he attended wedding and then went and got her."

Shows some shame.....

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D