I think his wanting to be alone for a few days is very normal..and if I was in his shoes, I would have wanted to do the same thing, with no one contacting me. That said, I wish he would have left you someway of contacting him in case of an emergency. But most MLCers don't think to well 'reality' wise. And most take quite awhile before they can think of others as much as they think of themselves.
His mind must be in such turmoil, even though he knows he wants to reconcile. Think what must be going through his mind and his soul right now!! The guilt, the same, the sadness, the loss he must feel...and the responsibility of being the person that brought so much of the same feeling to his spouse and family.
He's got a lot of healing to do on himself..not just your relationship.
Slow and easy Addie. Give him time to get over himself and the consequences he's finally starting to realize.
My prayers are with you, and I'm very happy that he's seeing the light.
Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible