I know it just won't happen. I'm back to considering how and when I expose or get her exposed as I feel that if I expose, she will never reconcile w/ me. We actually went to the beach today together w/ my D and it was ok. She offered to come pick us up and take us out to dinner as well so I accepted as I'm not really in the mood to cook anyway. My D and I took a walk on the beach and my D looked at me and said I don't think she's ever coming home. I didn't say anything but I had to agree w/ her assessment based on how the wife was acting. I actually looked into this warrant officer thing she is talking about and they have an MOS that I filled when I was in Iraq. I don't know if they'd take me but hey that would be more money in retirement and a chance at a new life. Just a thought, they probably wouldn't take me based on my time in service but it did look enticing and based on my experience w/ the Army it didn't look that bad. We'll see, the world is my oyster at this point.

So, back to the matter at hand, how to wreck this affair w/o the wife knowing that it was me. The only thing I can think of at this point is to find out the guys name and call his wife. Other than that, I don't know what else to do. Thoughts? Suggestions?


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!