Well wife and I last night discussed me getting the kids from her tonight instead of tomorrow so that they could go to church with me in the morning (she isn't attending anywhere right now).
I said.. let me decide what I want to do and I will let you know tomorrow. Well today... I have decided that as a part of GALing.. I am gonna go out tonight. All of my current friends are married and I don't have anyone to go have dinner and do whatever else with... so heres where I am stuck.
I can go out alone... which I am ok with... or.... do I mention my plans to wife and ask if she wants to go to a late dinner once the kids are in bed at her parents house?
I called her a few minutes ago and told her that I had decided not to get them tonight but rather I was gonna go out. She said... well.. well... what are you doing? I said... I haven't decided exactly? I can tell that I have peaked her interest. My concern is that if I go out and she is not with me.. that instead of sitting there.. wondering where I am and what I am doing that she will call OM and talk with him and basically even forget that she was really wondering what I was doing. I know I can't force her to think about me.. and I can't force her to go out with me.. and I can't force her to not call him tonight.
I only know that I am going out tonight.... with or without her. I would love it to be with her though? Any thoughts? Yes or No to mentioning any exact plans for me tonight with her? Also Yes or No to me asking if she wants to go?
PLEASE help.. LOL. I need to let her know something at the latest... within the next 1 to 2 hours...or she will have already eaten.. so it will be a mure point.
