Just recall the part where you gave someone else a great memory! and exh gave the usual.
Look you mentioned my strength - look at what you have "lived" through, be glad exh is "ex" (remember, I'm still M), give yourself credit for still being a loving person instead of a callous B***.
I know the memories stick for awhile but the secret is to move forward and GAL (whatever that is) and as you build positive memories with others, these will fade in importance.
This is the hardest R I have had - but part of the "hard" is how I choose to deal with it. In a spiritual sense, we have choices over how much meaning and what kind of meaning we place on experiences. What we choose can make life feel "hard" or " less hard".
Am spending the day doing almost nothing. I really get wiped out during the week anymore. Talk to you later or have a nice evening if we don't.
