I got this one too! In fact she mentioned that when she very first saw me all those years ago, she was hesitant to talk because she thought, "He's cute but maybe he's gay." Oh great.
I'm not a totally macho, truck-drivin', six-packs and gun-racks kinda guy but I know what I am. It can be easy for them to start connecting the wrong dots. The sex it wasn't good because you were never attracted to me or any other woman. You like clothes and you're spending time alone...hmmm... Mostly I think they want to believe it because it provides a great excuse and makes letting go easier. Nothing wrong on my side; husband plays for the other team.
She brought this up in front of a MC. He was all encouraging, "There's nothing wrong with that. Maybe you need to explore." True, there's nothing wrong with that, I have gay friends. You're connecting the wrong dots.
In fact it even messed me up for a while. Was I repressed or something? Nahhh...
Don't let it bother you.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
