This is all still very raw and it feels like the pain will never go away. I still have more bad days than good and it now 5 months since the bomb dropped.
Your solicitor neighbour had no right to make a statement like that to you, it was totally uncalled for and I would have thought unethical.
I read somewhere all the time a spouse shows any kind of temperament it shows he is in turmoil, as soon as indifference is displayed look out, as that is the opposite of love.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years