Your now getting a taste of PIERCING. This is hard too. Most people on the boards discount this part as this seems to be the thing we desired most we really don't know how to behave when we get here.
Don't pursue him now....let him come to you. Maybe he's just hungover from the alcohol and late night. I think girls over analyze things in their relationships... you've waited this long to see him turn towards you so what if you can't spend lots of time with him till next week. There is still the phone and email.
Don't get greedy with need at this moment. Enjoy the ride, the dating, the flirting, the texting. Just try to imagine this is someone new when ever you talk to him.
You wouldn't have made that comment to a new man (about "oh, didn't you want to meet me here first") that sounds desperate and needy and clingy.
The Helen thing well... my only advice because I seriously had OCD over my OW..... is to try to turn your attention but it's there and it will be for awhile. The times just get further between but sometimes it does make me sad or mad or wonder but then, I quickly recover these days. It just takes time and that's not gonna hurt anything as long as you keep it in check. B
Plus speaking from experience you want and need him to be fully clear on letting her go from his life. I don't mean in the physical (not sexual)way ... I mean the mental disconnect that must happen now. He is dealing with that still so he needs to have time to decompress and so do you.
Your so close girl and congrats on the 2nd chance.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
