Newly separated...spouse left, 4th thread

[Travis]

Antlers,
Quit beating yourself up over it. If you are sincere and forgot, great! It's over. Let her know she can have the kids Memorial weekend and say "I'm sorry about Mother's Day." End of story. My W left a month ago, so I'm going through the mental aspects as you are. My job has suffered and it's scaring me, but we can't let these things eat us up. I stayed up late reading threads here last night. I woke up this morning and decided it's a new "me". Don't let these small things ruin you. If you are truly a good person, you know what the right answers are. Don't over-think the situations. Just do what you know is right