Hi shovelhead, It seems that working on yourself, has proven some positive results. Good for you!!

Something you posted earlier struck me.

She also told me that we could date even when were divorced

My H said that strange concept to me as well. Maybe it's all about that dating feeling & getting back to that, don't know.

Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)