thank you for your reply, sara. I'm just so scared because he put me through H*LL last year, from the affair, leaving, playing games, custody battle, stealing my car, on and on. He's a pathological liar and i have had not one but ThREE psychologists tell me just by his actions alone that he displayes signs of sociopathy. he has never shown one ounce of guilt or anything regarding what he did to me -- to this day.

Now, I've come to accept that and really don't care what he does with his life now, I have personally moved on, but, it's VERY difficult having joint custody (I have primary residence) with someone like this. There is always some issue, he never wants to deal with our daughter's feelings, he's a disney dad with her all the way.

I have had to become a child therapist, tutor and basically everything because he just want to "have fun" with her and that's it.

I have tried to do everthing right because he has major control issues and I didn't want something like this to happen. Well, here it is.