I realized that I really need to make some more major changes in my life, such as digging deeper to find ways to increase my income. I already knew I needed to make all of these changes, but I had been cutting myself too much slack, excusing myself mentally because I have been trying to recover from the punches of the deteriorating relationship, his moving out, and so on. I had been trying to deal, but not trying hard enough, I guess. I know that I have been feeling overwhelmed and stuck and trapped in inertia, so I haven't been actually DOING stuff I knew I needed to do.
So now sweetie, it is time to lick your wounds and get this show on the road.....
Make a list.
Give yourself small daily tasks to do.
Do not set your goals so high that you get discouraged.
One day at a time!!!
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I have a whole lot of work to do on myself, and I am having trouble getting started.
Again, make a list of personal goals.
Maybe post them here so we can be your cheering commitee!!!
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.