"She said that she was still trying to find time to go to a therapist to work through her own issues (she said that she can't get past the hurt that she still feels when she sees me) so that we can go to counseling again."
How is she supposed to find time when you don't give her space? She's using you as an excuse since it's been almost four weeks and she hasn't even started dealing with any issues yet.
I wouldn't go out to lunch with her, but your call. Right now you're stuck because you won't let go to see that all of this is about her. You see how she keeps bringing up the "hurt". She's still blaming you, YET she calls and hangs around you all the time. You either need to call her on that or just cut yourself off from her.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
