Divorce looming #13

[MrBond]

"Tis the night before I move into the apartment. W won't let me take my dog."

If it's YOUR dog why didn't you just take it? You've gone back to letting her pull your puppet strings.

"Tonite D11's grandma asked her who is the one person that D11 can always trust to tell her the truth no matter what. D11 said her mom. So her grandma asked again. D11 said her mom again."

Why the hell did you just sit there while she was degrading you and even your W like that? That's when you should have "manned-up" and said something.

"I thought it was funny that they both feel they deserve respect. I don't think either of them deserve respect. Of course I kept my opinion to myself. So W is acting like the all high one as she is telling me this. I just politely listened and acknowledged as she talked."

Are you serious? Kevin, quite frankly you're the one that doesn't deserve respect because you didn't say anything. Have you followed up with the IC? You have got to get your self esteem issues worked on. PLEASE!

"The girls have been having attitudes lately and W got mad tonite and yelled at them. Then she told them that just because her and me have problems between us doesn't mean we aren't united on how the girls will act. I was sitting there thinking I don't have any problems with you. "

Again...why didn't YOU say anything rather than letting your W do the talking for you? They are your Ds too and you come here and post how they are showing you attitude, yet you don't say anything. It's no wonder they do not RESPECT you.

Do you want their future husbands to be treated like you? Unless you speak up and say something while your W is there, they will always follow their mom because they see her as the stronger one and you as weak.

Is that how you want to be seen by your Ds as weak? Kevin, I can't stress enough that you need to go to C ASAP.

You've already "turned off" a number of people who have tried to help you on these boards because you just do more of the same. You're like watching a car crash that can be avoided, but you insist on running head on into it.

Please take these 2x4s and use them constructively.