PM Thread #5 - Hope new plan works

[PositivelyMommy]

I was never confident around guys. I felt very shy and was not one to be able to talk comfortably with them except for maybe just a couple of friends.

My H was my first BF. He was my first love. Most of my friends had bf in high school. I didn't. I wasn't in a hurry but also I lacked confidence with the opposite sex. They were like aliens to me. Now it's time to change that.

So the whole concept of how to attract a man is very daunting to me. I don't know the little tricks and what to do to make a guy like me. So I am employing in some help.

I have signed up for a course in dating. How to attract a man. I have NOT read up on this subject at all. My usual fare is psychology, not biology. So it's going to be a very big challenge for me. I want to use some tricks to bring my H back.

I am thinking maybe I have been approaching this the wrong way because I have been intellectual and not doing what comes naturally with other women. If I am to be the attractive option, I need to know the tricks of the trade. I will give anything a try. It's in June. I'll keep everyone updated.