Wow, I am so sorry. You mention that H seems happy, but that may just be temporary. I think it seems natural for MLCers to regress back and now people can reconnect easily with folks from the past. I have been tempted to do that myself, but it is a stupid band aid. Nothing real. That is the trouble with MLC, it is not reality. I am so sorry that you are going through this and I hope H wakes up from that fog.
I thought my H was out of his fog, but there are still so many clues that he is still in the middle of his MLC, his style of clothes and his weight. His attitude is almost back to normal and he is no longer sleeping around but he still looks like he wants to be 20 years ago!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
