There is a line from Fireproof you need to hear. I do not remember the exact set up to it, but the one firefighter says to Kirk Cameron's character
"you have to lead your heart". Do not let your heart take control. Allow your mind to control your heart. You will be able to love her without expectations or assumptions. I knwo it is hard, I struggle with it, too, but it can be done. I think you are the Pup to do it!
Good luck and stand strong.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
