At the risk of having my head bitten off, I am going to offer this advice. REMOVE yourself from the situation. If you are contnually sucked into the drama, you are going to suffer more pain and hurt. What I mean by this is quite simple, stop listening to what others say about your EX, remember, if someone brings gossip to you, they will take what you say to others, and turn and twist it. Others also need to undersand that they cannot count on the EX for any type of help with children. MLCers, WAS, etc. are ALWAYS going to put the OP first! It sucks, I know, been the child in it, been through it as the adult, but that is the way it is and its not going to change. Regardless if you are "standing" "moving on" or whatever, all sitting around and wishing for this and that will do is just cause you more and more heartache.
OMG......
Braveheart.....
We finally agree on something!!!!
Hey, remember the 1980 U.S. hockey team beat the Russians, anything is possible! LOL BND, I think you will find that we agree on more things than you realize. My style and methods are different than yours. My opinion has always been you must rebuild YOUR life, not worry about thiers. (EX) In order to do that, you must live with the assumption they will not be back. How do you move ahead otherwise? If at somepoint they want to re-enter your life, its your choice to allow them to do that. If not, you have still moved ahead and you are better for it.
