Learning to Detach

[In Limbo]

KJ,

I think you just need to keep doing what you're doing. It's odd, my H has just started the anger thing too. Until now, we've been getting along remarkably well (no fighting) since the bomb. Now, it's just as you described - pinpointing every misstep - and if he can't find out, he makes one out of nothing. I'm wondering if it's because they see the changes we're making and it scares them. It's easier to leave a witchy woman than one that's being so good to them and making positive changes. But they're also scared that it's just "an act" and if they stay, things will go back to the way they were before.

I'm interested to hear what advice you get from some of the more sage souls around here.

Hang in there!