OD, You are searching for answers for why she is behaving the way she is. Maybe if you could diagnose it then you can fix her. Show her that her problems are causing alot of the M problems. I went thru it all: hormone imbalance, control issues, abandoment issues, MLC?, I even researched all the personality types to see what her problem was. Doesn't matter. You might be right about some of it and the sitch isn't putting your W in the best light. She is going thru more of the same emotions that you are than you know. Focus back on yourself. You only control you, your actions, thoughts and feelings. Your W doesn't want you to fix her just listen and understand the best you can. That's validating. Don't try to figure her out but seek to understand, appreciate and love her just the way she is. You can handle it. Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
