She lied ?!

Yes.. I think there is a better "quality".. for lack of a better term.. of people on POF. Probably because they tend to hold local events and eventually you will end up meeting someone.. either in passing at the event.. or planned through the site. It is free though.. oh.. and they dont really allow alot of skimpyness as part of their rules..unlike yahoo.. so anyway.. just my take on it fwiw..

Tom