I agree that porn and masturbating is not cheating, but when you have a wife that is ready to perish from lack of, well..., attention, it is selfish. I think it also sets up his sexuality to be some thing that is solo, rather than relational, so I ask him not to participate for those reasons. That's all. Thanks DQ!
Another lovely thing...he agreed to go one time to see the counselor. He says that if he is annoyed, he won't go back, but he'll give it one shot. YAY! I hope the counselor is not annoying...
Thanks for all the encouragement! You guys are awesome! I haven't felt this hopeful for a while...
