Wednesday I had a consult with yet another attorney. This one was much better and way more positive about my situation.

After thinking things through, I've decided to file for divorce.
I see no point in hanging around waiting on someone who treats me with such hatred and disrespect. If he wants to throw away a decent marriage for 23 years and get lost in his fantasy world - he can - I won't be around to help him find his way back.

This isn't something I really want to do but I've decided I have to, to protect me from this person I no longer know, can no longer trust and who would rather see me dead. I'm so sad at having to do this but I really see no other option.

Jerri
Me 50
WAH 47
M 23 years
D 22
S 21
S 30 (previous marriage)
B 02/09 marriage is over
S 02/09 NC