Over the Shock - Detaching and GALing 3

[Thinker]

This seems to be how it goes...a sudden change in direction and I am going to need some help.

She was acting weird, so I began to think, and then began to look.

I found that in the past 10 days there has been a sudden resurgence of both text messages and calls to OM. From none the month before, to the point where on one day a week ago there were 5 texts and 3 calls between them.

The most recent call and text were on Mothers day - just minutes after she strangely drove off in a bit of a hurry and without much explanation.

I can only believe that there is more behind the sudden texts - some other means of communication. Installed the keylogger again because I thought she was probably emailing him and then immediately erasing the evidence. I was going to be patient, gather evidence, see what was really going on, and figure out what to do...

But then the kicker!!!!

My W came home, went straight to her computer, and ran a search for and found the keylogger. She then confronted me with that...!

Guilty Conscience???

We had a blow up in which she was lying through her teeth. I had only found one of the texts and one of the calls at that point, so I confronted her with them and she tried to claim that those were "accidents". She also went down the tired old path of "There is nothing going on, the problems between us have nothing to do with him, etc..."

She was already on her way out the door with the kids when the blowup started, so is gone now, but will be back later.

She promised to talk later and I am going to confront her with her lies.

Puppy! Gucci! Sandi! All! I may need your help here!

Thanks

Thinker