Healing my Heart part 7

[fightingirish]

Today was a long day...

Im having a really hard time with this.. I know I should be happy that he is willing to go to therapy, but texting this other girl even though it was business related and nothing more still bothers me...

Im having trouble getting past this... im just not myself. He has been apologetic etc. but Im going to need just as much help as him to get through this.

Guys, do you remember the name of that movie about a married couple having problems and I think he is a fire fighter??? What's the name of it?? I want to rent it.

Thanks

[NoCodeBlues]

Fireproof with Kirk Cameron.

I'd suggest the book too that goes along with it, "The Love Dare".



Hugs and blessings, as always.

[fightingirish]

nc~ thank you my sweet friend.

Im going to rent it and try and watch it when the kids have gone to bed.

Nc.. on a note just to you, I hope you find someone who appreciates how kind and loving you are. Anyone would be lucky to have them for their own Thank you for all of your love and support over these last 2 years.

If only I could meet all of you and give you all a real hug!!

I am thinking that once we get finacially stable enough, im going to take up fencing... Im feeling the need to really get out there and do something i really would love.

i hope these stupid nightmares ive been having go away...

goodnite everyone

[fightingirish]

Ok, so I watched fireproof.. by myself. Someone suggested that I do that first.

I didn't realize that the movie was religous. Which is ok, but I don't necessarily have the same faith, but I get what the movie meant.

I was very well done. Part of it reminded me of what I have been going through with the porn. The end was very emotional for me.

It does put things in perspective.

[NoCodeBlues]

If only I could meet all of you and give you all a real hug!!

Hey, if we ever do meet in person, you know I'm going to hold you to that!

I thought Fireproof was really not that bad (even with some of the weak acting) especially given the small budget production of the film. And, naturally, the religious tones in the movie were not only a-okay with me, but quite welcome.

I just wish I had seen or read this stuff two years ago.

[fightingirish]

nc,

We actually watch it together last night. It was interesting to get his perspective on it. At the end though we were both emotional about the whole thing.

Having trouble finding a good therapist.I spoke to the one my dr. had given me and she sounds like a real weirdo. I wasn't comfortable at all.. so Im still searching.

Things have been good. I have been trying to be more affectionate and more aware then I usually am and Im seeing a change in him from just that. He did get fustrated with me yesterday, but I called him on it right away and his said he was sorry. I didn't drag it on and we continued our conversation.

None of this is easy and trust me I have my bad days, but all in all with some help from a therapist, Im praying that everything will be ok.

T

[NoCodeBlues]

(((((Irish)))))

So did he like the movie then? That'd be interesting to hear.

I am very glad and relieved to hear you both are more at ease with each other and making the effort. As we all know, none of us is perfect, and we all have our good and bad moments. If each of you can this keep in mind, I think you will fare well.

Patience and humility will take one very far indeed.

Blessings.

[Dr LOve]

(((((Irish)))))

As we all know, none of us is perfect, and we all have our good and bad moments.

Hey wait a minute.. I'm perfect....

It's the rest of the world that is screwed up....

Just kidding.. Hope things are going well Irish..

Doc

[fightingirish]

nc,doc..

Nc~ he did like it, he actually said that at the end of the movie. So that is a good thing.

Doc~ you are perfect mr. man...
I hope everything is ok there..

Quiet nice last night.. he got home late from working, but was very kind and attentive.

We didn't talk too much he was way too tired.

Getting my hair cut today, only a trim, I always feel better when I get my hair done

then its back to work... talk to you all later..

[Dr LOve]

Thanks Irish

Sorry to hijack ya but NoCode. My wife is not very religious. How do you think someone in that frame of mind would take "fireproof"

Actually anybody can pipe in on this...

Thanks Irish.. I now give you back your thread..
DOc