i know what you mean about the wifes new hot look ripping you out inside - i feel the same. heres what i wrote to her after she said we need to get moving on the divorce last night..
thanks for the chance to talk last night. I completely understand how you feel. Sometimes its best to cut the losses and move on. I respect that we all need to be happy and this is what will make you happy - you are happier without me than with me. As for my happiness, despite being completely heart broken, in a strange way this has been the best 2 months of my life. Spending more time with you and daughter, and finally letting you both know how much i love you and our family, is more than enough for me. I know it has no bearing on how you feel, but to me its important for you to know, for me to know, and someday 20 years down the road for daughter to know, that despite making lots of really bad mistakes, that i never gave up on us. I love you.
