My darling girl. I am so pleased to learn of your latest news about your husband. However, because your relationship has been through so much turmoil, I do think Retro would be the way to go. From what I've read, it's an incredibly worthwhile experience and since your marriage has experienced so much volatility, I think it would do you both a world of good. It would give you two a real chance at working to understand each other and learn how to communicate to one another in a way that let's the love come through again.
My best wishes for your future happiness. You've been through so much. I think of you so often, sweetness.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence