Is the balance then to be Dark/Dim when we're not together/talking and the person I want to be when we are together or if she calls?
No the balance is being the person you want to be all the time wo/having to depend on her to define you.
So does that mean if the person I want to be wants to call her to chat, that's ok?
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
