"Right now I'm trying to rediscover the me that she had fallen in love with - warm, fun loving, confident, caring and worry-free. That's how I've been trying to be."
Exactly! Be who YOU want to be. In your earlier posts it was all about how you should act around her. Just be yourself. Or be the person you WANT to be.
I guess the person I want to be would be pursuing her more actively (i.e. calling every nite to create the connection) but that flies against Dark/Dim.
Is the balance then to be Dark/Dim when we're not together/talking and the person I want to be when we are together or if she calls?
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
