Newcomer, want to keep my hope alive!

[iwantittowork]

Thanks Song, I am back from the L, and I must say that I am:

Elated and sad both at the same time.

First, I had this vision of when my W was done with me and the D, that I would be living in an hotel room eating Ramen noodles and paying for her to take time off and drive around in our convertible all summer having the time of her life.. Not a fun place to visit..

But, the L was able to go through everything with me, and assure me that due to Length of our M, situation, etc, that is simply not going to happen.

I don't want to go into too many details, but the reason I am sad is he thinks my W is going to get a dose of reality at the Mediator's and when she doesn't get what she thinks she is entitled to, is then going to try and and go the attack with a L route.

That will be sad if that happens, but I am now not afraid of the D any more, and my only plan is to protect myself, I have no intention of being greedy, nor trying to hide or stop anything she is entitled to.

I recommend getting a L to at least give you the rundown if you have not been through this before, if only to protect yourself!