Another thing to remember, Renee, is that an MLCer will act differently from a WAH.
My H was bogged down in confusion and indecision from the beginning. To this day, he still doesn't know what he wants. The mixed messages he has been sending me for years almost drove me crazy and, in the long run, only kept me stuck along with H.
Your XH has acted much more decisively. That's why a lot of people here (including myself) think he is WAH instead of MLC.
There are differences between MLC and WAH but the DB rules (for LBS's) are the same .. GAL, move forward, and live as though your H is never coming back. IF, somewhere down the road, he wants to renew a R with you, that's fine - but don't wait on it to happen. You will have a good life going for you.
You're still new at this and it's common to analyze behavior. It's hard to do but try and start being less concerned about what XH is doing and redirect your thoughts toward making a new improved life for yourself (like BND suggested).
I had to learn this lesson the hard way.
i think my xh is a wah with mlc mixed in. i have tried to find info on wah but all i find is waw,lol
