I know my XF is a controlling person. He now is making rude comments about me and my roommate (a female that I've known for 20 plus years). He is jealous of my friendship with her and that I'm making plans to shop with her, etc. He makes me feel as though I'm obligated to him. He makes me feel like I'm walking on eggshells, he makes me feel like I owe him for everything he's done for me. Classic signs, huh? Why is it so hard to be done with this relationship? Why can't I break this off? Why is so dang hard for me? Why do I do this? I swear, I don't know what the heck got into me.

I really need to end this, once and for all. Yet, he's like a habit to me. Why am I making this so hard?


Gwyn