Somebody needs to tell me not to feel guilty, please..
Don't feel guilty.....
Actually, I would assume you feel some guilt because you DO understand what he is going through to a certain degree. And deep down, you know this needs to happen. You have tried to protect him throughout your marriage, and you see him headed towards a brick wall at 100 mph, and you know you cannot help him.
Essentially ?
You are still a wife and mother, trying to protect those you love. You feel guilty by NOT trying to help him.
Chances are this has nothing to do with the money...